CABORU Sebuah catatan pemikiran tentang hidup dan perjalanan seorang perempuan yang suka kelayapan

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Perempuan dan Layangan Putus

Layangan itu kian terbang tinggi. Meliuk-liuk di birunya langit. Mengikuti kemanapun angin membawanya. Termasuk ikhlas pada saat ia harus sobek dan terjebak di sebuah ranting. Ataupun dia harus diburu oleh beberapa anak laki-laki yang menginginkannya sebagai mainan baru. Bila ditangkap oleh seorang bocah, dia pun hanya bisa diam dipermainkan. Dipatahkan kedua bilai bambunya, disobek-sobek seluruh tubuhnya. Layangan putus itu bisa apa?  Berteriak dengan diam?
Beruntunglah perempuan tidak perlu mengalami hal yang sama seperti layangan putus. Ketika dia dihadapkan beberapa pilihan yang menyulitkan, perempuan tetap punya pilihan hatinya sendiri. Termasuk di dalam urusan pernikahan. Bukan berarti perempuan yang masih jomblo tidak memikirkan soal pernikahan. Apalagi bila perempuan tersebut sudah dikatakan pantas menikah.

Thursday, March 26, 2015

I'm Home

Hei, long time i never write in this blog. And at the first time, i want using english. Hihi.

Two months ago i stayed in different city for something. So that, it was not amazing story since you got sick at there. I never got flu more than 2 days. But there until 2 weeks. So scary. >.<

I want to tell you a little story. A few friends has got married, they are younger than me. Wuaa. And they are men of all. Someone i know, his age same like my younger brother. My younger brother still in senior high school. But not about my friend. His has big body. But you should realise that he is so young. And he has worked. I though not all people get same oppurtunity with me. My father fight for his children's education. He hopes his children get high school so that have good future. 
Education is number 1.
For us.
But not for them, which just life for eat. Life need eat right? How about education. I understand what you fell,but you should know that everyone has first priority in their life. Not same with you.
I am thinking, is it wrong or true?
I don't know. Because if discus about true or wrong, not same with another people. I just hope my friend still study although not in formal education. He has dream too, you know.
Talk about that custom. I confess if i live in save home. My father never smoking, never using badmouth, never bully. When i was ou home. It suprise me of course. I saw a few young men drunk. Wuaaa... I saw him walked tottering. And one foot of him trapped in gutter. While he pull his foot then another foot of him got trap too. Hihi. And for this chance, i runaway.

I see, Drunk is very usual at there. Although they did that not in public. But still, how can they do that?? 
Someone told me, if people from his town never drunk so he is not part of that town. 
What? is he stupid or what? How could he proud of that? 

After that, i fell not comfert again. I wanna go home quickly. But i need right time.

At several time, they (drunk young men) are not bad person. They still have good attitude. i can talk many things with them while they are awake (not drunk i mean). Like normal person.

Finnaly, i still hope go home. It is not only about different custom but also about weather too. 
And Allah swt show the way...

Do you sad go home?
No, i say many thanks to Allah. May be i still not ready for walked out from comfort zone.